Books at Bedtime: Allison by Allen Say

Monday, November 9th, 2009

Allison by Allen Say (Houghton Mifflin, 1997)November is National Adoption Awareness Month in the U.S. and I have just read Allen Say‘s book, Allison (Houghton Mifflin, 1997), which is the heart-rendingly beautiful story of a little girl’s own sudden awareness of her adopted status and its consequences.

When little Allison’s grandmother sends her a kimono to wear, she suddenly realises that with her straight, dark hair, she looks more like her beloved Japanese doll Mei Mei than her (adoptive) parents. She wants to know where her Mommy and Daddy are, and why they didn’t want her. Despite her parents’ reassurances of their love for her, Allison comes close to rejecting them and her behavior reflects her inner turmoil. It takes a stray cat to help her get her life back into kilter and realise that she is part of a loving family which now numbers five, with Allison herself, her Mommy and Daddy, Mei Mei, and now also a no-longer-stray cat.

Allison’s hurt and anger are sensitively reflected in the illustrations through Say’s depiction of facial expressions and body-language. He doesn’t gloss over how hard it can be for parents to respond rationally either, and this adds to the story’s emotional depth. This is indeed a powerful and poignant book!

For other books about adoption, see these posts written last year by Aline and me; and do also read this thought-provoking post over at the Third Mom blog.

National Adoption Awareness Month

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Young Milly is the heroine in Julia Alvarez’s Finding Miracles, which was featured as our Tiger’s Choice last month. Born Milagros, and adopted by an American couple from an unnamed country in Latin America, Milly is in many ways a typical high school girl grappling with issues of identity. As Janet points out in her review of the book, “In her journey to learn how to be Milagros as well as Milly, this extraordinary young woman learns that family is an expandable concept.”

Whereas Milly’s tale isn’t “about adoption,” Julia Alvarez sensitively weaves in the theme around the book’s other topics—which makes it a very timely read for National Adoption Awareness Month, when we celebrate adoption as one of the special ways in which families are formed.

Adoption added complexity and depth to Milly’s journey of self-discovery, as it did to Joseph Calderaro’s personal quest in Rose Kent‘s Kimchi & Calamari, about a Korean teen who was adopted as a child by Italian-American parents. Whereas Finding Miracles and Kimchi & Calamari don’t deal exclusively with issues of adoption, by portraying well-rounded, well-adjusted adopted teens they emphasize the true, positive nature of adoption and help dispel the stereotypes that abound in literature and the media. For these and many others reasons, I highly recommend them.

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Click here for ideas on how to celebrate and advocate for children who have yet to find a loving family to be a part of, and check out Marjorie’s The Ties of Love post for more book ideas and resources on the theme. You don’t need be a member of the adoption community to appreciate and enjoy this celebration!