Asma Mobin-Uddin, illustrated by Laura Jacobsen,
A Party in Ramadan
Boyds Mills Press, 2009.

Ages 7-9

Leena is excited about Julia’s upcoming party: “Mom, Julia is going to have a pony at the party, and we get to ride it!  I never rode a pony before.”  She has also been excited about participating in the fasting during Ramadan for the first time this year (children are not expected to fast every day of Ramadan until they have passed puberty), so she is disappointed to learn that the party will be held on the afternoon of the day she had chosen to fast.

Leena’s mom suggests that she go to the party and fast on a different day, but Leena is not satisfied. “But Auntie Sana is coming on Friday.  We are all going to have iftar dinner after we break the fast.  I don’t want to give up fasting on that day.” 

Leena’s idea is to go to the party, ride the pony, and play games but not eat or drink anything.  Her mother agrees and is impressed with her daughter’s dedication though she is not sure Leena will be able to resist the temptation of cake and lemonade.

Making it through the party and maintaining her fast proves difficult for Leena, and she is embarrassed when Julia’s mother expresses shock that Muslims cannot even drink water during their fast.  Will Leena be able to follow through on the promise she has made to herself and her faith?

This lovely story is an exploration of a young child’s determination to do what she believes is right.  It is also a lesson in tolerance for children who encounter others whose beliefs may differ from their own.  Leena’s friends do not mock or ostracize her for refraining from cake and punch or wearing the hijab.  Neither does Leena pass judgment on them for not sharing her beliefs.

With soft illustrations depicting ordinary suburban life and gentle conversations between Leena, her parents, and her friends, Mobin-Uddin and Laura Jacobsen have created a picture book that can help bridge divides and reassure children of any faith who sometimes have to make the choice between fitting in and following their hearts.

Abigail Sawyer
September 2009