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Ting-Xing Ye,
Throwaway Daughter.
Doubleday Canada, 2003.
Grace Dong-Mei Parker, the Throwaway Daughter
of the title, was abandoned at birth in China and
adopted by a Canadian family. Her story is told by
voices from the past and the present, east and west,
which come together to reveal both her missing past
and the reasons for her abandonment.
The first half of the novel establishes Grace as
an average Canadian girl and the Parkers as a loving
and supportive family: it is the strength of her sense
of belonging to this family that allows her to explore
her Chinese identity. But "Grace" and her
adoptive family retreat from the centre stage in the
second half of the novel as "Dong-Mei" comes
forward: snippets of Communist party policy, Chinese
tradition, family history and political turmoil come
together to construct the circumstances of Dong-Mei's
birth and adoption. The end of her quest is to forge
a reconciliation with her ancestry, and, through understanding,
to forgive her mother for abandoning her.
Growing up in Canada, Grace is at best incurious,
and at worst scathing, about the country of her birth,
and she resents her adoptive mother's insistence that
she remember her roots. In adolescence, however, world
events and social issues start to have more impact
on her. Chapters containing snapshots the Tiananmen
Square massacre, a televised debate on racism
prepare the way for Grace's admission that she feels
like "two people at the same time".
Her initial motivation for tracking down her family
is to blame them for what they did to her, but her
story is both a cultural exploration and a process
of maturation. Her search leads her to the understanding
that she too, like the missing female population in
modern China lamented by her half-brother Ah-Miao,
is a lost jigsaw piece. Her mother's life has been
bereft not knowing what became of her.
Grace learns tolerance and opens her mind to a new
culture, which, like the nightmarish dish "still-alive
fish" offered to her as a special treat, is often
hard to swallow. The horrors of China's twentieth
century history are not glossed over, nor is her father's
family presented in an attractive light, but as Grace
accepts a lift from Ah-Miao, representative of the
new rural China, there appears to be a hint of acceptance
and even the possibility of forgiveness of the family.
It is a tale of culture clash: both because her protagonist
is a teenager who uses words like "shit"
a lot and "mouths off," and because the
author is herself Chinese, Ting-Xing Ye gets away
with strong negative comments about China. Grace's
reactions are often outspoken: she wanted to boot
the little boy in the Shanghai restaurant "in
his fat little ass." Her Chinese roots "could
wither in hell." At other times, she says nothing,
but the authorial position is still clear: the conversation
with Ms. Song's daughter sets Chinese submissive daughter
up against Western independent girl: although she
doesn't comment, we can sense Grace's embarrassment
as Ms. Song asks her to help get the daughter into
a Canadian college, while the daughter's viewpoint
is ignored.
The author allows the different characters to speak
for themselves, but the result is that we often find
little to sympathise with. Like Grace, the writer
doesn't always succeed in not taking sides. Grace's
Canadian family retain their wholesome, righteous
image while her Chinese family is, even having heard
about their difficulties, hard to like.
The story reads like a journal or a documentary rather
than a novel many characters, such as Ms. Song,
are introduced in order to give information about
China, while character vignettes, such as the little
boy in the Shanghai restaurant, seem to be there to
show us stereotypes of the modern country. It is a
blatantly informative book. There are much more skilfully
written works around for young adults, but the strength
of Throwaway Daughter is its topicality. It
should be read for content rather than style.
Despite these reservations, it is an interesting,
informative and accessible book for teenagers
one that can help them give twentieth century Chinese
history a human face. It is a good book to use in
schools to explore cultural issues, specifically the
theme of cross-cultural adoption.
Christine Bruce
June 27, 2003
Christine
Bruce teaches at the Chinese University of Hong
Kong in the Faculty of Education. She works with teachers
of ESL and promotes the teaching of English through
literature.
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